Without quality time, your relation ship will not survive. Crave out at least half an hour and night , and at least one day a month when you two of you spend time exclusively together
You will both need security, comfort. A good relationship built on common promise and a great deal of give and take on both side.
Keep your dependence and independence in balance. Tell and show your partner how much you need him/her, but don’t cling , as that can make your partner feel trapped.
Encourage him /her to listen to you, by showing appreciation when he/she does .by the same token, show interest when he/ she talks to you. Be aware that most men are not programmed for conversation in the way women are. They need more silence and internal time.
Make him/her appreciate you .Don’t wait for a spontaneous compliment , but say something good about yourself and ask for his /her agreement.
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